By Rachel Schemmerling | Timeless Living Designs
It seems that at this time of year there is a subtle slowing, an invitation to turn inward — when the air cools, the light changes, and our homes start to say it’s “time to gather”.
Before the rush of guests, menus, and twinkle lights, I always find myself wanting to pause and create space — both literally and emotionally — for the season ahead. Because while the holidays can bring joy and celebration, they can also stir up stress, clutter, and a feeling of being “off balance.”
This is the moment to shift from decorating to preparing — from making your home look ready to helping it feel ready.
Here are a few ways to begin:
- Clear the surfaces. Before adding décor, edit what’s already there. A clean console, sideboard or uncluttered dining table instantly makes a room feel calm.
- Layer in warmth. Bring out your textured throws, heavier drapes, and candlelight lanterns, holders and vases. Think of creating a gentle glow that draws people in.
- Welcome with scent. A simmer pot of citrus and cloves or an essential oil blend of cedar and orange can set the tone before anyone walks through the door.
- Rethink your gathering spaces. Consider the floor plan flow. Does your living room invite conversation? Do guests have a spot to place a drink or cozy up near the fire? A few thoughtful adjustments can change the entire experience.
- Prep your guest spaces now. Fresh linens, towels, bedside lighting and a touch of hospitality — even a carafe of water or a note — tell guests they’re seen and cared for. Start stocking up on toiletries to share in a small basket. Things like hand creams, shampoo, organic soaps, make up wipes, etc. to help guests feel thought of.
Creating a home that feels good to be in isn’t about perfection — it’s about presence. When your home supports your peace, you and your guests will have more room for joy, connection, and meaning in the moments that matter most.